Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Sweet Home Paris


It has been nearly 2 months since Mark and I moved to Paris. The process of moving – as I have said before – is never fun but those trials and frustrations make it all the more sweeter when you finally can settle into your new home.

We moved into our “permanent” apartment on May 7th and we have really enjoyed getting settled and exploring our new neighborhood. We chose to live in the 5th arrondissement which is on the left bank of the River Seine. (An arrondissement is like a neighborhood within a city, like Georgetown in DC or Cloverdale in Montgomery.) We are just two blocks from Luxembourg Gardens and we live on a quintessential French street adorned with a butcher, farmers market for produce, fromagerie (cheese), patisserie (desserts), boulangerie (bread) and wine store. We also have several clothing shops, restaurants, cafes and bars all along the street. When it is time to cook dinner, Mark and I just walk down the street and pick up the ingredients for our meal. It is so much fun!

For everything else, we walk to one of the other nearby markets. It is quite a change from what we were accustomed to in DC, especially since we no longer own a car. Mark and I often have to remind each other that whatever we buy at the supermarché must be carried back to the apartment building AND up 4 flights of stairs. So, only as much wine and Coke Light as we can carry.

We are very pleased with the apartment itself. It has a very Parisian feel to it with the wood beams on the ceilings, hardwood floors and large windows. However, I am happy to say that other than its compact size, our kitchen is not very Parisian. We have an American style kitchen with a 4 burner stove and regular oven, dishwasher and almost standard refrigerator.

Getting accustomed to the 4th floor walk-up was fun, especially when we had to move in our 9 bags of luggage. Lilly hasn’t been too keen on the stairs so I have started a little game with her. Whenever we are coming back from a walk, I race her up the stairs. So far Lilly hasn’t beaten me – even when I take the occasional fall (at which Mark always laughs) - but she gets really excited about the competition. 

The adjustment to living here took longer than I initially expected, but I feel like Paris is starting to feel more and more like home. I really do think living where we do within the city has made a huge difference. The people at the butcher and the farmers market are getting to know us since we come in nearly every day. It is nice feeling like locals in a city we don’t know too well. Mark is even learning more French so he can order the right kind of meat from the butcher, and we are learning to convert our pounds into kilograms. Baby steps...old habits die HARD! Luckily they are all very patient with us.

I really enjoy going to buy produce. Not only is it so nice to finally find good tomatoes but there is an old man that works in the store that always asks in French how I am doing. And if I respond with anything other than très bien, he seems concerned. He is so sweet, and even though I don’t understand him half the time, he makes me feel special.

As far as our adjustment to the new language, I think Mark and I are doing okay. We have learned what we like to call “menu French.” This means we are able to order food and have some idea of what will be served. Earlier this week I enrolled in an intensive French language course that begins on Monday. I will be taking classes Monday through Friday - 20 hours a week of nothing but French – should be fun!
 
Paris is such a special place, and living here is a great experience for us both. Now that we are feeling more and more like locals, we are able to see the quirks of the city. So just for fun, I started compiling a list of things that someone visiting or living in Paris would never say. I hope this doesn’t offend anyone. It might only make sense to a few people, but I had fun compiling it so I wanted to share.

 
Things you would NEVER say in Paris:


I’d like less ice with my soda.

There isn’t enough cheese on my meal.

Parisians don’t smoke enough.

This kitchen is too large.

The drivers here are very courteous to pedestrians.

This phone network works too well.

Man, wifi is abundant here!

I can’t believe how cheap it is to live here.

Could these prices get any lower?

What a bargain!

There just aren’t enough wine choices on this menu.

Why isn’t there any outdoor seating?

I wish there were more tourists.

They really need more museums.

Napoleon was from France, I had no idea!

These buildings don’t have enough character.

Where’s the culture?

The shopping choices are so limited.

This city needs more bridges and lights.  

I have noticed a severe lack of gardens.

Where are all the high carb options?

I’m concerned I don’t have enough fat in my normal diet.

Why are there so many gyms?

This coffee is too weak.

Why can’t I find a good dessert anywhere?

 
I also wanted to share some photos. Please ignore the random pieces of luggage and lack of décor. It is a work in progress.

 
 
 
Looking from the master bedroom to the den. Bathroom is on the left.
 
Master bedroom, I love the built-ins!
 
 
 
View from the den.
View from the den (looking toward our shops).

AND a little Lilly in the city action!



 


  

 
C’est la vie, yall! Thanks for reading!
 
 

Friday, May 17, 2013

Au Revoir DC

Saying goodbye is never easy even when you know it's coming. When Mark and I moved from Montgomery, Alabama to Washington, DC in 2010 I was so excited about our new adventure that I didn't fully understand exactly how difficult the move would be. It's not just the process of moving all of your stuff that is hard but also being in a new place that you don't know.

For our move from DC to Paris, I was determined to approach it differently this time. I mentally prepared myself for 3 months. I took time to really appreciate the city that I love, made sure to see it's beauty. Enjoyed time with friends. Visited some of my favorite restaurants. Got one last haircut with Michael. Worked out a lot with Lana and Juliet. Spent plenty of time at Whole Foods.

When we moved to DC, Mark and I were blessed to both have a best friend in the city (shout out to Josh Knight and Bree Beckham Straessle), and we are even more blessed to leave with many more friends.

When we arrived Mark was beginning business school at GWU, and I was newly unemployed after leaving my job due to the move. Our lives have changed so much since that day in August 2010 when we drove into the city with Lilly for the first time.

I am not going to lie and say everything in DC was perfect; life just doesn't work that way. We experienced many low times, like the loss of family members and one very unexpected diagnosis. But at the end of the day, when I look back on our time in DC, I won't see the sad moments. Sure I will remember those important lessons learned, but that isn't what represents our time there.

These are the things I will think about:

Our first night in DC with Lilly at the Westin

Lots of job interviews (too many at the Chamber of Commerce)

Job offers

Mark's graduation on the National Mall

Meeting Anna Schmidt for the first time

Yoga and Pilates

Bree and Brian's engagement at the Lincoln Memorial

Girls Brunches

Über - I like to ride in style

My special salad at Chop't

Huge purses and walking shoes

Karaoke

Ben's Chili Bowl

The best sandwich in DC - Nobadeer at Jetties

Valentine’s dinners from Dupont Italian Kitchen

Eastern Market

Rock Creek Park with Mark and Lilly

DCA - such an easy and convenient airport

Lincoln - you are the only man I can tell Mark I love and I know he doesn't judge me because he loves you too!

MLK Memorial Dedication on the Mall with Mark, Bree and Brian

Slumber parties with Bree, Brian and Cafe Romeo

Drinking Pink Panthers with Whitney Miller and Anna Schmidt

Being a Juliette Stovall groupie with Lana

Touring the West Wing with Shannon as our guide

Driving back into DC any time I left - such a beautiful city

A Dog's Day Out - They loved Lils!

Rooftop grilling and pool time

Dinner parties with friends

Cocktails at POV and Off the Record

Cookouts at Leigh's

Weekend road trips with best friends

Spading that ace with Josh and Anna

Fist pumping with Todd Stacy – well, this happens anywhere with Todd

Many, many birthday parties illuminated by glow bracelets

Number 9 with Matt, Rick and Harry

Healthy bite (ACC)

Nat's baseball with Audrey and Caroline

Learning the importance of a down coat and UGGs

Hosting our wonderful family and great friends

Granny visiting DC for my 27th birthday

Monday night dinners in Del Ray

Watching Lilly play in the snow

Driving 45 mins for BBQ with Mark, Josh and Anna

Couples tennis matches

Taste of the South

Gold Cup

Lots of shopping

Picnics

Jazz in the Garden

Pole Pressure

Georgetown Cupcakes

And many many more great memories!


I also wanted to include some photos from our time in the District. Before we moved, we did a photo shoot with Deb Lindsey on the National Mall to commemorate our time in the city. This was also an attempt to capture some pics of Lilly. Here are some of those pictures and many others of fun times with friends and family.

The Mark Dixon laugh, you know what I'm talking about! Photo by Deb Lindsey

Photo by Deb Lindsey

If you wonder what Lilly is looking at, its water - she is obsessed! Photo by Deb Lindsey

This is us telling her she can't jump in the reflecting pool. Photo by Deb Lindsey

Photo by Deb Lindsey

Still staring at the water but I love this picture! Photo by Deb Lindsey

MBA Graduation Gala

Every now and then you have to Jolie your leg!

WE DID IT!!


Friends and family, always a good combination!

Best friends brave the crowds and hot sun to attend your husband's graduation so you don't have to sit alone.
After what was a very successful picnic!

Easter in DC - croquet anyone?

Memorial Day pool party


 Welcome to DC Todd Stacy!

 Gold Cup

 Open bar, enough said!

Hey Girl, it's Paul Ryan!

After the cocktail competition where Josh became an internationally recognized mixologist!
 
New Years eve moped wreck in Bermuda. Matching hospital gowns. Pain killers already consumed!
My hair looks AWESOME!
 
Donating my hair in 2011

In honor of my amazing big sister Shea
 
MLK Memorial Dedication

 
Great mom and a great view!
 
Sister time at the Newseum!

Mom, Dad and Granny came for my 27th Bday!

You can't see it, but she loves me more!


My boo!

I learned so much about myself in DC. Because of great travel opportunities I was able to realize long term goals for my life. They might not happen until retirement but at least I know where my passions lie.

Dear Washington, DC:

I want you to know that I had a blast. I learned a lot and know... we ARE NOT finished! If it is up to me, the Dixons will be back! DC is the first city I actually felt like I belonged and was understood. I hope our story will have another chapter or two!

Lana - get ready because when I do return, I will need lots of spin class, Vida RX and Body. You're coming with me!

Love ya!

EEHD

C'est la vie y'all! Thanks for reading.